A little help

When I first had my baby, i searched and searched for information of what to do and i still do research.

-Daily help
-How do I hold her when I'm feeding her
-How often should i change her
-What do i do if she wont fall asleep
-when I'm not feeding her and she is not sleeping what do i do with her

There are many questions everyone has that the internet does not have answers for. Its usually the details that are missing.

I thought i would share some helpful tips to make life easier. This wont be a complete guide for everyone and it may not help
everyone either. Feel free to add your own ideas and any questions for me as well.

1. It can become frustrating making your baby bottles when she or he is crying and wont give you time to. You can make baby bottles
and have them in the fridge for up to 24 hours, as long as she has not eaten from the bottle yet. If you are using formula and don't want to leave your baby bottles
in the fridge with your food, this is what i do. I clean her bottles and add the water needed in advance. So when its time to eat all you have to do is add
formula.

2.Sleep arrangements can be difficult. I planned to have my daughter sleep in her crib right away. But, once she was born her crib just looked so big and empty i didn't feel comfortable.
It is okay to have your baby sleep in a bassinet for the first few months. But, don't go past 6 months. It will become very hard to transition your child to their crib. If you want some
crib transitioning tips i can post on that also.

3. Choosing wipes for your baby can sound easy. But, i have recently discovered a certain brand has glass in it. This brand caused my baby to have a rash outbreak that we couldn't fix.
Once we switched brands it started to heal. When you buy a pack of wipes hold it up to the sun or lighting and see if it shines or sparkles. If it does do not use them. i will not name the brand,
because i am not sure if this issue is in every package. But, i have seen videos about it online also.

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First Time Mommy

    Ever wonder what it would be like to be a mommy? How would it feel to see your newborn child in your arms for the first time? For many people the experience is very different. Everyone always hears and see's on tv how happy mothers are. But, have you ever seen a proud mom who isnt excited? I have, and I want to let those of you who are curious, know about both sides.

    When I first became pregnant, I cried like most people do. But, they weren't tears of joy. I wasn't read to have a child, nor did I ever want to have one. I told my boyfriend at the time and he convinced me to keep the baby. I was so worried. We didn't have the money for it or a good place for the baby to live. The whole pregnancy I didn't feel pregnant. Many people talk about that feeling of becoming a mommy. The joy you feel inside, anxiousness and glee. I didn't feel those things. I was still worried and someone selfish. I wanted to live my life without having a baby stopping that.
    About 6 months in I started to feel alright. I was accepting that I was pregnant and that I was going to be a mom. Was I excited? No. But, I was learning to grow with my baby. As months past I started collecting items for her and became happier. Feeling her move in my tummy and hiccup after I ate was amazing.
    Finally, the day came where it was time for her to be born to this world. I wasn't over excited, I was just there. Waiting to have my C-section and go home with a new member of the family. I mentioned earlier how everyone talks about the first moments when you see your child. How you never felt love until you see your first child born. Unlike many other women, I had post partum depression.
    After, my C-section I saw my family around my little girl. They were so happy and excited. Taking photos and videos of her screaming for the first time. While I sat there almost in a haze. I was in the distance, it felt. My baby was right in front of me but I didn't want to hold her. It was almost like I was afraid of her. I didn't talk to anyone about how I felt because I knew if doctors found out they would want to watch me longer.
    After, some healing and medical issues I got to go home. Once home, I did everything I could to get away from my baby. I would go outside and smoke. Lay down and sleep because of C-section pains. It took me 3 months to start to care about my little angel. I wish I could get back her first 3 months of life. Even though I was there, my memories are in a haze. Now, I am happily raising my daughter and enjoying every minute of it! Watching her stand all by her self and babbling away!


       There is one thing I want all expecting moms and want to be moms reading this to know. When you feel down and want to just run away from your life. Talk to a friend or family member you can trust. There was nothing I could do to feel better, because there was no way I was going to take anti-depressants. But, PPD is nothing to be ashamed of. My PPD was bad for me, but I didn't want to hurt myself so I stuck through it on my own. If for any reason, any of you need help please do so!

Babies have no idea what's going on in life. All you can do is do what's best for them. I luckily had a good man to take care of her during my time of depression. If you don't have someone to help you, you can easily find help with your family doctor.

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