Ouch!

Ever think of how easy it is to fix a cut or a scrape on your knee? I have. Before my daughters first accident I felt like I knew how to take care of any boo-boo she got. Then it happened! She fell face first into her Lego's. I quickly picked her up to make her feel better. When I noticed blood. (She hit her lips so they were bleeding a little, nothing serious) But, I panicked. I spun in a circle trying to figure out if I should grab a wipie, toilet paper, wash cloth.. I ended up cleaning her up and she is all healed up now. But, the funny thing is when you get hurt it's 100% easier then when it's your baby. A simple clean up and a kiss was like the end of the world! Haha So for all new mommies out there, breath. When something happens hold your baby and breath. Pause for a second, and think what if it was me who got hurt what would I do. Then adjust it for your babies need. It is scary dont get me wrong. If you need help don't be afraid to ask someone either. Even if you feel dumb it will help you be more prepared for future accidents. Also, afterwards you will feel much better you handled it and ready for the next time your little one has an ouch!

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Feeding: 0-4months

   From your baby's birth to four months give your LO breast milk or formula only!
Your baby's digestive system is still developing, so solid foods will not be good for her just yet.

Is your baby eating enough?

I have wondered this myself and have given my baby more just because I thought she needed it. 

Thankfully, there are some signs to tell.

Breastfeeding moms usually have enough milk for their babies. If your baby isn't getting enough they can become dehydrated and not won't being growing like they should. In rare cases this can happen and should be brought up at a doctors office asap.
Here are some signs of a good feeding.

-Your breasts feel softer after feeding.

-After eating your baby should be happy or relaxed. If she isn't happy, still restless all the time and if you are making enough milk the problem could be in her mouth. Look and see if your baby has a Tongue tie, upper/lower lip tie or throat tie. These look like extra skin that's pulling her tongue down or keeping her lip close to her mouth.
   We all have a little upper lip tie(that extra skin you feel above your gums, in the middle of your upper lip). But, sometimes this can be extreme for babies and may need to be snipped. Tongue ties, lip ties can prevent the baby from getting proper suction. Which stops her from getting the nutrition she needs.

-Weight gain estimation. In the first few weeks your baby may loss some weight. Usually, this is just water weight. They should double their weight within a few weeks. Within 2months your baby may gain up to 10 ounces a week. Months 3 to 6, she will slow to about 5 ounces a week.

These are rough estimates. Some baby's do grow faster or slower then others. Check with your health care provider to be sure.

Fun in the Sun

Summer is probably the best time to get out with your baby! Let her experience the wind and birds chirping. Maybe even play with water!!
     But, there's a few things you need to make sure you do. Make sure your little one has some sort of hat on. The sun will be bright for her and it protects her head. Also, make sure she has sun lotion on. Sun lotion for babies. Apply it every hour. Maybe even less then every hour depending how young she is.
   Have her in loose clothing. This helps with sweating. Also, change her diaper often. She can get a heat rash if you let her sit in a wet diaper for to long. Babies, can get heat rash inside too. If they are warm alot.
    Something fun you can do.
-If you have a stroller, put water in the cup/food holder.
-have water proof diapers of changer her after playing right away.
You can let your baby experience water with out going in a pool or a bath to play. My little one loves playing in water. Screams and yipps the hole time.

Life changes

Sitting at home taking care of your LO. Loving every moment of it, but is this all your going to do for the next 10 years? Are you the stay at home type or do you need to still do something with your life?
Well, guess what, you still can! Just because you have a baby doesn't mean your life has to stop. Do what you need to do but, make sure it revolves around your baby. If doing something will make you a better parent to her. Do it. Don't let life get you down. Anything is possible nowadays!
    Do what's best for you and your daughter. Your the one who is raising her (if your a stay at home mom). Don't let anyone tell you different. Not your parents, not your husband/ boyfriend. If you need to start school or get a job. Do it, just make sure your daughter comes first.
That baby is all that matters now. Just make sure your happy, she can sense if you get stressed with her

Sitters

       Your sitting baby! Its so exciting to see! Brought tears to my eyes as she started to be able to balance all on her own!

       As fun as it is, you have to be a little bit more aware of where your baby is. She no longer is stuck in one spot! Now she can rock and possibly fall over. Dont be to afraid though, a long as you or someone is with her, as she gains strength, everything will be okay! =D
      Play pens are a wonderful place for them to learn their crawling and sitting as they can't grab at dangerous objects, when you look away at the dog that knocked over your drink.

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Technology Today

         Technology today has a huge impact on our daily lives. You cant walk around a corner without seeing someone with their cell phone out. Technology is a great thing that has helped many of us gather information,such as this website, and use up our spare time. But, do we use it to much?
         I recently read a post about deleting Facebook and how much it changed that persons life. I agree with them. We no longer pay attention to our surrounding as much as we used to. This can impact our children and future children greatly. Out of personal opinion, try to show your soon to be kids the wonders of life before they figure out technology.
        My days are spent watching my baby and my phone. I no longer know how to live with out having some sort of technology in front of me. Which i plan to change! Start going for walks and maybe pick up reading a book. Think about it, if you weren't able to watch tv, use your cell phone or surf the internet what would you do? Give me your ideas in comments below. Would this be easy for you to just stop and hang out outside enjoying life for what it is?
       Now none of you have to do this of course. Just something to think of. How much are you really missing if your not on your phone looking at the same news every five minutes? Also, how much are you missing in front of you crawling on the ground for the first time with out you seeing? I love technology! So i decided to use it for a good cause, i am going to make this blog and maybe strike some awareness out there. Use a little less internet and little more family time.
       Let me know your thoughts on this topic. Do you think we use technology to much in our daily lives?

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New Habits

 When you first have your baby, you may freak out 3 or 4 days in. Running around the house trying to keep it clean, while trying to figure out how to take care of your baby.
     Make a routine! I can't express how helpful it is. Sit down when someone is watching your baby or you have a minute to yourself and think. When does your baby wake up to eat? Have a bottle ready for him ahead of time. This helps A LOT, especially if your super tired! Keep going from there. Morning agenda example;

   -wake up, change baby
   -Feed baby
   -play time(with you, play pen, bouncer etc)
   -nap time

Your agenda can have more or less then what I listed. If something comes up, you can still use your list of things to do. Just adjust it to what's going on. :) I also would like to add, how important it is to make you time. If you are a stay at home mommy and your not the stay at home type. Find something to do. If your not happy it will rub off onto your baby. Find a hobby or even online classes if you like.
      I made this blog because I am a stay at home mom and needed something to do. I love my daughter but, for me to be the best parent I can be. I needed something to do for myself. Call it a mini-vacation. Almost like having a job but your still at home to watch your baby and spending quality time together. I hope this helped some of you! Feel free to add to my post with any suggestions.

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